The three most important ways to lead people are:... by example... by example... by example.
Don't blame, forgive, All healing is self-healing
A man is truly ethical only when he obeys the compulsion to help all life which he is able to assist, and shrinks from injuring anything that lives.
Example is leadership.
Therapy is the boat across the river, but most don't want to get off. Don't blame, forgive, All healing is self-healing