Saying you taught it but the student didn't learn it is like saying you sold it but the customer didn't buy it.
The overwhelming number of teachers ...are unable to name or describe a theory of learning that underlies what they do.
In short, with each of the thousand-and-one problems that present themselves in family life, our choice is between controlling and teaching, between creating an atmosphere of distrust and one of trust, between setting an example of power and helping children to learn responsibility, between quick-fix parenting and the kind that's focused on long-term goals.