Without memory, there is no healing. Without forgiveness, there is no future.
I suppose being the kind of creatures we [people] are, we like to censor the past, and are selective, or want to be selective about the things that we remember. If you want to destroy people, destroy their memory, destroy their history.
Forgiveness does not mean condoning what has been done. It means taking what happened seriously...drawing out the sting in the memory that threatens our entire existence.
Catharsis is about cleansing and healing at one and the same time - healing memories and attitudes, healing the spirit and the heart.