Having children is my greatest achievement. It was my saviour. It switched my focus from the outside to the inside. My children are gifts, they remind me of what's important.
I don't believe we own our children, they're their own souls who make their own choices, we just guide and support them.
Focusing on the way I look makes me uncomfortable. I try to focus on the way I feel - I know what makes me feel better about myself. Reading my child a story makes me feel great, doing my hair nicely doesn't.
I've had two children and no surgery. My body is the result of good genes and a healthy attitude.