During really difficult times in my life when I start questioning why I am struggling with something, I often turn to books to understand myself better.
After my divorce, I was struggling to find my own voice. Through reading, I gained my power back.
As a woman, when you embrace where you are in life, then I think the struggle [life] isn't so hard. If you're 42 and still think you're an ingenue, then you've got a problem.