I believe in free will.
Just send the emails and talk to people. Spend all your money on nail polish and opera tickets.
Go to a place and just send out emails. That's my entire life. I go to countries and I ask, "Who would I know who lives here?" Not even do I know, but who exists and is on the planet.
There's this resistance to actually talking to people who are smarter than you about things and I don't know why that is.
I would never tell anybody to get a divorce.