Your problems are not there to defeat you, they are there to increase you.
we can not prepare for defeat and expect to live a life in Victory.
We all have unfair situations and things we don't like. You can get bitter, discouraged and sour, or you can see it as fertilizer and say, “ This difficulty is not going to defeat me; it's going to promote me. It's not going to hinder me; it's going to help me.” Don't just go through it, grow through it.