Things take the time they take. Don't worry.
I saw that worrying had come to nothing and gave it up. And took my old body and went out into the morning, and sang.
The end of life has its own nature, also worth our attention. I don't say this without reckoning in the sorrow, the worry, the many diminishments. But surely it is then that a person's character shines or glooms.
Things take the time they take. don't worry. How many roads did St. Augustine follow before he became St. Augustine?