It takes great generosity to accept generosity.
you have to be very careful when you give to others that you don't tell them how great you are rather than how much you value them.
Marriage is supposed to do everything, like Duz, which is more than half its problem. It is said to save us, define us, give us purpose, keep us from loneliness, and incidentally balance our diet and wash our socks, and when it doesn't, we get divorced.