Focus on the process of what it takes to be successful.
Eliminate the clutter and all the things that are going on outside and focus on the things that you can control with how you sort of go about and take care of your business. That's something that's ongoing, and it can never change.
There is no continuum for success. Focus on the progress, not the results.
If you don't get result-oriented with the kids, you can focus on the things in the process that are important to them being successful.
Focus on the play like it has a history and a life of its own.