Shoulda, coulda, and woulda won't get it done. In attacking adversity, only a positive attitude, alertness, and regrouping to basics can launch a comeback.
You have no choices about how you lose, but you do have a choice about how you come back and prepare to win again.
Great effort springs naturally from great attitude.
There's always the motivation of wanting to win. Everybody has that. But a champion needs, in his attitude, a motivation above and beyond winning.