Don't take life too seriously and have fun. Don't waste your time on things that your ego will try and convince you are important.
Ego loves identity. Drag mocks identity. Ego hates drag
Our ego never wants to die and it will do anything to prolong its life. But the truth is, we are both spirit and ego and you have to have a balance between the two. Your spirit never dies, but the ego is all about beginnings and ends.
