You have two things happening: You have the cultural and economic reality of men falling apart and traditional masculinity falling apart.
Culture is always the echo of economic realities; that's what Marx teaches. Feminism is a clear example of that.
The economy is changing everything. And men need to deal with that. Our response to it has been rage, stupidity and conscious avoidance of dealing with what the reality of being a man might be outside of empty concepts from ancient history.