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God is not interested in what you think you should be or feel. He is not interested in the narrative you have construct for yourself, or that others have construct for you. He may even use suffering to deconstruct that narrative.

"Glorious Ruin: How Suffering Sets You Free". p. 78-80. Book by Tullian Tchividjian, www.christianpost.com. 2012.
God is not interested in what you think you should be or feel. He is not interested in the narrative you have construct for yourself, or that others have construct for you. He may even use suffering to deconstruct that