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But the reality is we often become our kindest, most ethical selves only by seeing what it feels like to be a selfish jackass first.

Cheryl Strayed (2013). “Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Someone Who’s Been There”, p.236, Atlantic Books Ltd
But the reality is we often become our kindest, most ethical selves only by seeing what it feels like to be a selfish jackass first.