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To take offence is a great folly, and to give offence is a great folly - I know not which is the greater.

Amelia E. Barr (2017). “The Maid of Maiden Lane: A Sequel to "The Bow of Orange Ribbon." A Love Story”, p.242, Sai ePublications via PublishDrive
To take offence is a great folly, and to give offence is a great folly - I know not which is the greater.