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I have, by long experience, found women to be like Telephus's spear: if one end kills, the other cures.

Lord Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield, Philip Dormer Stanhope Earl of Chesterfield (1855). “The Works of Lord Chesterfield: Including His Letters to His Son, Etc : to which is Prefixed, an Original Life of the Author”, p.563
I have, by long experience, found women to be like Telephus's spear: if one end kills, the other cures.