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Be patient with yourself. Don't make the loss harder by thinking you should be a certain way, or have bounced back, etc.

"Ask the Author Live: Meghan O'Rourke on Grief". Live chat, www.newyorker.com. March 2, 2011.
Be patient with yourself. Don't make the loss harder by thinking you should be a certain way, or have bounced back, etc.