Charity in various guises is an intruder the poor see often; but courtesy and delicacy are visitants with which they are seldom honored.
Ouida (1890*). “Moths. The marquis's tactics. Meleagris Gallopavo. Guilderoy”

Charity in various guises is an intruder the poor see often; but courtesy and delicacy are visitants with which they are seldom honored.