We have to constantly critique imperialist white supremacist patriarchal culture because it is normalized by mass media and rendered unproblematic.
as females in a patriarchal culture, we were not slaves of love; most of us were and are slaves of longing-- yearning for a master who will set us free and claim us because we cannot claim ourselves
We don't really live in a culture that loves boys or loves children, and we don't encourage boys to be whole.
In a culture of domination, preoccupation with victimage is inevitable.