Sometimes the most evolved souls take the most challenging paths
Every individual soul chooses the significant people in that life. Destiny will place you in the particular circumstance; it will dictate that you will encounter a particular person, at a certain time, place.
Souls don't have races or sexes or religions. They are beyond artificial divisions.
More learning can occur when there are many obstacles then when thear are few or none. A life with difficult relationships, filled with obstacles and losses, presents the most opportunity for the soul's growth. You may have chosen the more difficult life so that you could accelerate your physical progress
A life with difficult relationships, filled with obstacles and losses, presents the most opportunity for the soul's growth.