With every adversity, there is an equal or greater gift. Keep looking for the gift.
Self-pity is an acid which eats holes in happiness.
Most very successful people can remember that their success was discovered and built out of adversity of some kind. It's not the problems that beset us-problems are surprisingly pretty much the same for millions of others-it's how we react to problems that determines not only our degree of growth and maturity but our future success-and, perhaps, much of our health.