Think about where you're going and never mind where you've been. Don't spend any more time justifying any of that stuff.
Everything that we want is downstream... And you don't have even have to turn the boat and paddle downstream, just let go of the oars, the current will carry you.
We would like you to reach the place where you're not willing to listen to people criticize one another... where you take no satisfaction from somebody being wrong... where it matters to you so much that you feel good, that you are only willing to think positive things about people... you are only willing to look for positive aspects; you are only willing to look for solutions, and you are not willing to beat the drum of all of the problems of the world.
Delegate it to the manager. You have this really good staff that will take care of everything for you. You just have to delegate it and trust it.
So the big question is, "Well, do I just dump all those unwanted things and try to start fresh?" And we say, no. You just set the Tone, where you are, by looking for things to appreciate. And by setting your Tone in a very clear deliberate way, anything that doesn't match it gravitates out of your experience, and anything that does match it gravitates into your experience. It is so much simpler than most of you are allowing yourself to believe.
All you gotta do is chill out... Let go of control and chill out... Let it be, Trust.
Most people are rowing against the current of life. Instead of turning the boat around, all they need to do is let go of the oars.