Wear your ego like a loose fitting garment.
Happy are those who have overcome their egos; happy are those who have attained peace; happy are those who have found the Truth.
In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves. This is a helpful pointer for our everyday presence-practice. Can you catch yourself angrily defending your point of view or attacking the other person's? There's the ego.