Forgive others, forgive yourself, forgive yourself for not being perfect, and accept responsibility for your own life.
If we wish to free ourselves from enslavement, we must choose freedom and the responsibility this entails.
As long as you are free, you are free to select and choose alternatives, provided that you are willing to accept the responsibility for being free. And after you've tried your alternatives, and they don't work as you would wish, don't blame me. Blame your choice. Try another alternative.
