Lois McMaster Bujold Quotes about Winning

When you give each other everything, it becomes an even trade. Each wins all.
Lois McMaster Bujold (2000). “A Civil Campaign”, p.105, Baen Books
"Barrayar". Book by Lois McMaster Bujold, 1991.
If there's no game, isn't winning a pretty meaningless concept?
Lois McMaster Bujold (1996). “Memory (Hardcover)”, p.50, Baen Books