I am a lesbian, and it was a later in life recognition of that fact.
More than anything else, my mother wanted to be an actress - a famous actress - which in the 1950s was all about being young, sexy, and available. She was all that, and more. She had big blue eyes, alabaster skin, a heart-shaped face, a beautiful figure. She was just a knockout.
But my middle daughter, Kate, is very involved in martial arts, and I was just at one of her competitions.
I've been taking art classes for a couple of years; I love to draw.