I really like to please people, and I think it's a symptom of being an only child.
I think that there should be options available, quite early on, that if someone is recognised as a disruptive child, for them to be trained vocationally. Maybe if those kids were given the option to learn how to contribute to society on a practical level they wouldn't get into trouble.
My mum's always on at me to have children and blames 'that stupid stage thing you do' for me not already having a family.
