I don't think writing or co-writing my songs makes me a better singer, but I haven't really got an excuse not to do it as I've got too many opinions!
Someone had my number and they started text-stalking me. I've never replied to them. It was tempting to write back, but I resisted.
Writing songs about fancying people in dance clubs is all very well but it's not the be-all and end-all. There are other topics.