Your closet needs to be a place of joy and celebration of who are you now - not who you were.
Looking relevant, modern, timely and appropriate in terms of your age, body type and lifestyle is not only about the joy of self-expression but a form of self-care: it lets the world know how you want to be perceived and treated.
Any item in your wardrobe should satisfy one of two criteria: utility and joy.
Style is joyful if you allow yourself to have joy.