A man wants his virility regarded. A woman wants her femininity appreciated, however indirect and subtle the indications of regard and appreciation. [Here] one is respected and judged only as a human being. It is an appalling experience.
"The Left Hand of Darkness". Chapter 7 "The Question of Sex" (p. 95). Book by Ursula K. Le Guin, 1969.
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