You must never call your enemy by a name you choose for him." “Instead you must call him by the name he calls himself. What he chooses will reflect his pride; it will reveal his desires. But what you choose to call him will reveal your fears, which should be kept to yourself, lest your enemy find the way to exploit them.
Cameron Dokey (2010). “Wild Orchid: A Retelling of "The Ballad of Mulan"”, p.7, Simon and Schuster