The more you wish to be, the wiser you are; while the wish to have is apt to be foolish in proportion to its largeness.
Lafcadio Hearn (2014). “Exotics and Retrospectives”, p.147, LITTLE, BROWN, AND COMPANY

The more you wish to be, the wiser you are; while the wish to have is apt to be foolish in proportion to its largeness.