Her grief grieved her. His devastated her.
I'm too into skateboarding to be devastated by anything.
When the system does not recognize me I'm not devastated.
I'm sure that if I had a partner and that partner cheated on me, that I would be devastated if we were in a committed, monogamous relationship. So of course, it's a devastating thing.
I've been glued to the TV. I am absolutely devastated.