The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.
Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement, all success, all achievement in real life grows.
I came to realize that life lived to help others is the only one that matters and that it sis my duty ... This is my highest and best use as a human.
You must take the first step. The first steps will take some effort, maybe pain. But after that, everything that has to be done is real-life movement.