When we take care of ourselves like we would take care of someone we love, the quality of our living and our giving goes up.
Regardless of what is being discussed . . . the issue is never more important than the quality of the interaction.
Love will keep us safe when we commit to choosing the kind of qualities, characteristics, and relationships that we would recommend to someone we love.
To spank or not to spank isn't the question the question is whether whether we are teaching a quality we want our kids to have as adults?