The Army damages itself when it doesn't live up to its own values.
The agenda in sexual activity, whether it's appropriate or not, has to do with lust, affection, passion, love, but the agenda in sexual harassment is not any of that. It is power, control, dominance. The tool is the same on both, but the agenda is completely different. That's what distinguishes the two.
I think there's a sense of power women don't get till we're older when we say, 'This is the line, and you're not stepping over it.