The greatest gift you can give someone is the gift of inspiration.
When you love people, you give them a priority. You have a sense of urgency about their pain.
The condition of truth is to allow suffering to speak - that gives it an existential emphasis.
All you have is a gift a to give.
And as a Christian, I got something the world didn't give me, the world can't take away, so I find joy that can never be reduced to anything.