Everyone has a fantasy of what they want their band to sound like. However, because I knew nothing about making music, I was unable to describe what I wanted properly.
I'm definitely not in a band to convince anyone I can sing.
I didn't want people to accuse me of being really depressive. I really tried to fight against that and not have a complete downer about the subject.
Touring is exciting, fun and the reason why you want to be in a band.
If you want to play a cool punk club, that's great - but punk clubs don't have any toilet seats. After a while, little things like that become big issues.