John de Ruiter Quotes about Heart

The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and softness of heart, what forms the present and the future is not your past but the reality of your own being.

As soon as you give your heart to something new you will immediately be able to think in a way that is new.

If you are all open in your heart, you are clean. If you are all open in your self, you are naive.

Everything needs to touch your heart. Everything that touches your heart brings out the deep in you.

Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed.

Find the most delicate qualities within; then treat these qualities as tiny little seeds that you would plant in your heart, with you being the gardener.

Give others their dignity by opening and softening in your heart to them.

When you are free of your self in your heart, your labouring within your self is therapeutic to your self. It is a constant blend into your self of what your own Being is. The movement of love, enjoying being at work in the self. The movement of love, enjoying making a change in your self. The enjoyment of application.

Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I'm giving you is what has my heart.

Let your sexuality move in whichever way it does. Do nothing to guide it or control it. What brings it into balance is you being in your heart in the midst of it.

If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self.

Let your heart believe only what nurtures you.

When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters to you in your self will change.

The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart, and in your self. Deep heart understanding replaces your need and your holding of personal truths.

Your past determines your future unless you’re clearly moving past your self and responding to what you know in your heart.

What touches your heart is meaning.

When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.

When you are on your deathbed, and you look back into your life, it won’t matter to you what you have done with your life. What will matter to you is what you have done all of your life with your heart.

Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else.

Live only for what you know in your heart is worth dying for.

When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted.

When you come from your heart in the midst of your self and in your life, you’ll be like a salmon turning and going upstream. You’ll be going against the stream. You’ll be going against what your self is like. In that way, you are training your self, your conditioning and the streams of your self.

What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through your heart, into your self.

When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling the law of containment.

When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything.