Actions speak louder than words. And sometimes inaction speaks louder than both of them.
This world is filled with things that will never make sense. Trying to make so much sense of them will only result in one thing: Spending the rest of your life trying to remember what you were like before any of it mattered.
For you will be dead much longer than you will be alive. And you will have all that time to remember everything that was your life, even if no one else does. So you had better find something worth remembering and just leave it at that.
Personal perception of perfection is like that. You see what you want to see. After awhile you just see what you need to.
Goals are just dreams with deadlines.