That's is life. You move and change according to things that happen to you and things that you make happen because of poor choices.
Not all Trump supporters are bigots. They believe he had something to offer. I may disagree. You may disagree but we need to be civil to each other. Use the facts to make your point. I had read that the clothes made by some of the brands use sweatshops. Facts folks not feelings. We all have to live with each other and our choices.
We all only have a certain amount of money and that means yes, we have to make choices and sometimes those choices mean we don't get what we want.