Philippa Perry Quotes

In order to stretch ourselves we do need to experience the vulnerability of not knowing the outcome.

A sense of achievement improves general confidence and self-esteem.

The trouble is if we take no new steps to try a new challenge, our comfort zone doesn't seem just to stay still, but retract.

We need to look at the repetitions in the stories we tell ourselves [and] at the process of the stories rather than merely their surface content. Then we can begin to experiment with changing the filter through which we look at the world, start to edit the story and thus regain flexibility where we have been getting stuck

People tend to slip up and go along the old road before they realise what they've done and climb out of it again.

Our emotional map is laid down mainly in relationship with our earliest caregiver in the first couple of years of life.

Two brains are better than one. You've twice the brain capacity and you have two sets of experiences and genes to bring to any challenge.

I think there is probably something evolutionary in that we are drawn to the easiest option. But in our age of convenience, cars, ready meals and off the peg mean that we are in danger of being mentally under stretched.

It seems whether we have a tendency towards being flexible or structured affects how we create, how we parent, how we work.

Beginning a new habit, or ending an old one can feel like letting go of a rope that swings a mile above the ground. So we feel reluctant to let go, after all, we've survived so far doing what we've done, why risk it.

I am talking about being optimistic enough to sow some seeds in the hope that some of them will germinate and grow into flowers.

Meditators are shown to have thickening in parts of the brain structure that deal with attention, memory and sensory functions. This was found to be more noticeable in older, more practiced meditators than in younger adults which is interesting because this structure usually tends to get thinner as we age.

As we get older it is our short term memory that fades rather than our long term memory. Perhaps we have evolved like this so that we are able to tell the younger generation about the stories and experiences that have formed us which may be important to subsequent generations if they are to thrive.I worry though, about what might happen to our minds if most of the stories we hear are about greed, war, and atrocity

We don't have to have suffered brain damage to take advantage of the plastic nature of our brains.

The extreme of flexibility is chaos and the extreme of being structured is rigid and staying sane, or indeed using your creativity, is about being aware of these extremes and steering yourself to areas where you work best which usually tend to be more in the middle than at either extreme edge.

If you start from a position of I'm a no-hoper, in a paradoxical kind of way you are not risking being vulnerable.

A relapse doesn't mean you'll never walk down the path you prefer. But I think relapses are almost an inevitable part of any course of self-development.

Neurogenesis continues throughout life and we have the capacity to establish new neural pathways and strengthen existing ones.

Sometimes an artist's vision may get blurred when subjected to a committee because an artwork is usually an expression of something unconscious that is better left in the realm of one person's unconscious if it is to speak to another person's unconscious.

Whether you plan or whether you flow in order to be creative probably isn't the point. The point is to keep practicing to maintain neural pathways and to establish new ones by learning new skills.

Meditation is focused attention and the more we practise focusing our brains the more connections we build up.

If we are not using our brains' capacity for challenge it feels to me as though it atrophies like an unused muscle.

There are probably times where the creative process is not helped by collaboration.

It used to be thought that you stopped making new neural connections in your youth and from then on your brain was fixed and it was downhill all the way. But in fact as we know from our own experience we can keep on learning and learning means changing our brain on a physical level.

Our brains do not have to be fixed, they can be plastic.