The struggle is to stay present enough when you're taking your next step forward that you're really making your most honest choices.
At the end of the day, the only thing I ever wanted to feel was loved. So I think if I could give someone a piece of advice, it's really learn how to be kind to yourself. In all of our ugliness and all of our brokenness and our bad choices, to really learn to nurture that part of yourself that can be your own big sister in a way.
No one is anything but a shade of grey. It's good people making bad choices.