I don't care how many friends you have on Facebook or how many followers you have on Twitter. Those are not actual friends or truly followers. I care about how many people will miss you if you're not back here again tomorrow.
If your team is filled with people who work for the company, you'll soon be defeated by tribes of people who work for a cause.
While someone can attempt to shame you, shame must also be accepted to be effective. We can't make you feel shame without your participation.
Don't worry about your stuff. Worry about making meaning instead.