Don't be overwhelmed by a man's fancy car, fancy house or fancy clothes. It's really the person inside the care, house and clothes that matters. By the same token, don't be underwhelmed by a less-than-fancy car, house or clohtes. Women can earn the car and house themselves, and you can always buy your man nice clothes, too.
Don't underestimate kindess, gentleness and patience in a man.
Marriage. Don't be pressured into it. Is the fear of loneliness really greater than the fear of bondage?