Nothing will undermine your effectiveness as a leader faster than a bad marriage.
Only two things can stop Tiger — injury or a bad marriage.
A bad marriage is worse than no marriage at all.
Of course, bad marriages are so pervasive that they have invaded the faith community too.
Y'know, every relationship is different. There are good marriages, bad marriages, connected partners, unconnected partners.
I'm still going on bad dates when by now I should be in a bad marriage.