I'm a modern girl, but you should put your husband first. I like to think divorce is not an option.
If I even imagined someone talking to my husband too close, I would beat the crap out of them.
Part of being married is knowing when your husband needs your support.
I always have mini bottles of Unbreakable, the fragrance I did with my husband. I'm Armenian, so I'm oily and always have blotting papers.