You have to decide what level you want to participate in your children's lives. The more you do, the better your relationship is going to be. You have to listen to your instincts. You know when it's time to lay down the law.
Travel's the great educator, especially for the girls. You can't put a value on it.
I'm the dad, the cleanup guy. I deal with the bigger messes. But I also provide more adventures and excitement. It works out.
There needs to be a reason to go, so you go deeper into whatever place you're visiting to find those unforgettable experiences.
In Hawaii, the environment is fabulous. In Malibu, the people are fabulous. Our family unity is tight, and we have the Pacific Ocean outside our door in both places, so there is consistency.
Fortunately, I was given an incredible foundation from my independent mother. She showed me what was possible from a strong, loving woman.
California has more distractions, more activities for the kids, more driving.
I need a big wave to really excel. The smaller stuff is a bit like...ballet for me.
When I fly to Chile to surf or go snowboarding in Russia or some other adventure, I try to include the family when I can and go see friends along the way.
