I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
A woman who is convinced that she deserves to accept only the best challenges herself to give the best. Then she is living phenomenally.
We will sometimes have defeats in life but you can have defeats without being defeated, you could fail without being a failure. When you see failure and defeats as merely part of the process to get to when.
To be human is to be challenged to be more divine. Not even to try to meet such a challenge is the biggest defeat imaginable.